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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt; font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif"; color:#1F497D">Several people have suggested
</span><i><span style="font-size:11.0pt; font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif"; color:#1F497D"><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Confessions-Abusive-Husband-How--Abuse-Free/dp/0963173901/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1353965207&sr=1-1&keywords=confessions+of+an+abusive+husband">Confessions
of an Abusive Husband: A How-To Book for Abuse-Free Living for Everyone</a></span></i><span style="font-size:11.0pt; font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif"; color:#1F497D"> by Robert Robertson (1992) in response to my stumper below.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt; font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif"; color:#1F497D">Although it’s twenty years old instead of ten, it’s the only title published by the Lake Oswego-based Heritage Park Publishing Company, which makes it likely
that the author is local. The patron remembers meeting the author, so I think this might be the one. I’ve sent it to the patron – thanks to everyone for your quick replies!</span><span style="font-size:11.0pt; font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif"; color:#1F497D"></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt; font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif"; color:#1F497D">Molly Carlisle</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-size:10.0pt; font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif"">From:</span></b><span style="font-size:10.0pt; font-family:"Tahoma","sans-serif""> Molly Carlisle
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<b>Sent:</b> Monday, November 26, 2012 1:04 PM<br>
<b>To:</b> libs-or@listsmart.osl.state.or.us<br>
<b>Subject:</b> book stumper</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt; font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif"; color:#1F497D">Hello, Great Brain!</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt; font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif"; color:#1F497D">A patron is looking for a book fitting this description:</span></p>
<p class="yiv1797617290msonormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt; font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif"; color:#1F497D">“I’m trying to remember the name of a book. It's about 8-10 years old. The author was an abusive husband. I don't remember his professional background.
He had many relationship failures, been married and was abusive, then he learned, changed and wrote a book about it.”</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt; font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif"; color:#1F497D">We’ve ruled out
<i><a href="http://www.amazon.com/My-Darkest-Hour-Realized-Abusive/dp/1593092873/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1353352418&sr=8-1&keywords=my+darkest+hour%3A+the+day+I+realized" target="_blank">My Darkest Hour: The Day I Realized I Was Abusive</a></i> by Harold L.
Turley (2010), <i><span style="background:white"><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Real-Men-Dont-Abuse-Women/dp/1403393958/ref=sr_1_2?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1353963694&sr=1-2" target="_blank">Real Men Don’t Abuse Women: A Personal Account</a></span></i><span style="background:white">
by Wallace W. Smith (2003), and </span><i><a href="http://catalog.wccls.org/polaris/search/searchresults.aspx?ctx=29.1033.0.0.1&type=Keyword&term=stop%20hurting%20the%20women%20you%20love&by=KW&sort=TI&limit=TOM=*&query=&page=0" target="_blank">Stop Hurting
the Woman You Love: Breaking the Cycle of Abusive Behavior</a> </i>by Charlie Donaldson (2006). The patron feels sure that the book came out about ten years ago but didn’t have any other clues to give.
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt; font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif"; color:#1F497D">Please contact me directly if you can help. Many thanks!</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11.0pt; font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif"; color:#1F497D">Molly Carlisle</span></p>
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