<div dir="ltr"><div>Hi, <br></div><div><br></div><div>Thank you so much for all of your support. I am compiling all of the advice I got into this email.</div><div><br></div><div>I was told to bring it to the City Council and wait to respond until I get feedback from them. One of the City Councillors is outraged and definitely on my side. I'm not sure how the others will react. I will let you all know what happens.<br></div><div><br></div><div>I also wanted to let everyone know that our library is making sure we purchase
books that represent the LGBTQ+ community, and we let anyone in Douglas
County get a library card and check out materials. I make sure that the stories I do for our online story time represent many different people, not just cis white people. I appreciate everyone's support.</div><div><br></div><div>This will be a very long email due to all the responses, but I wanted to include them in case anyone else has this same issue or one similar.<br></div><div><br></div><div>Thanks.<br></div><div><div><div dir="ltr" data-smartmail="gmail_signature"><div dir="ltr"><img src="https://docs.google.com/uc?export=download&id=14y2kscJe7v_G5S91Dy-ugtPJA2cQ3zsB&revid=0B2fqwBVQaLYuSEJtOTdwVTNzeUFEQUlZLy9zQThVeFVHY0hnPQ"></div><div dir="ltr"><br></div><div dir="ltr">
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I am sorry you have been getting negative feedback about your <span class="gmail-il">display</span>.
I would reach out to OLA Office of Intellectual Freedom. They can help
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<div id="gmail-:47c" class="gmail-a3s gmail-aiL"><div dir="auto">Hi, Rachael. </div><div dir="auto"><br></div><div dir="auto">I’m sorry you are facing this complaint. </div><div dir="auto"><br></div><div dir="auto">If you have a <span class="gmail-il">challenge</span> policy, I would offer her the form or procedure that’s in place. I’m case you don’t, I can forward one. </div><div dir="auto"><br></div><div dir="auto">My
other thought is to utilize the wording and authority of the American
Librarian Association, Oregon Library Association, and State Library. If
you have a board or governing/guiding body, it might help to have them
answer. </div><div dir="auto"><br></div><div dir="auto">For example, if I
were answering this complaint, I would answer with a “thank you for the
input” and for “caring about the community.” I might then go on to say
that it is the library’s mission to welcome and include everyone (or
something else along those lines that matches your mission statement). I
would then offer the formal complaint form and access to the procedure
by which these <span class="gmail-il">challenges</span> are handled. </div><div dir="auto"><br></div><div dir="auto">Banned Books forums might have more specific language. </div><div dir="auto"><br></div><div dir="auto">Sincerely thanking you for your thoughtful question and for being willing to engage this patron. </div><div dir="auto"><br></div><div dir="auto">Miriam Sisson, District Librarian</div><div dir="auto">North Douglas Library District</div><font color="#888888">-- <br><div dir="ltr"><div dir="ltr"><div><div dir="ltr"><div><div dir="ltr">Miriam Sisson (she/her/hers)<div>District Librarian<br></div><div>Mildred Whipple Library, North Douglas Library District</div><div><a href="http://ndld.org" target="_blank">ndld.org</a><br></div><div>541-836-2648</div></div></div></div></div></div></div>
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Hi, Rachael,</p>
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Just the ramblings of a reference librarian on his day off, but this might be one way to approach it:</p>
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I might start by agreeing with them that it is a community library, and
since there are people who are LGBTQ in the Douglas County community, it
is important to make sure they feel welcome in the community library. </p>
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I'd continue with the fact that your library (at least based on the
catalog searches I did) has materials on Islam, Christianity, atheism,
the Vietnam War, white supremacy, Donald Trump, and Barack Obama, just
to name a few potentially controversial subjects,
and just because a subject is controversial in your community does not
mean it isn't worth having materials on and promoting it in the library.</p>
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I might wrap it up with the fact that the library is a place for people
to feel comfortable exploring ideas, all people with many different
lifestyles and beliefs, and it is especially important for the library
to reach out to groups of people who have been,
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I might add a little P.S. stating that the patron who wrote the letter
doesn't need to subscribe to all the different beliefs found in all the
different materials in the library, but that the Douglas County
community has more than one point of view on people
who are LGBTQ, and while the library would never demand that the author
of the letter support people who are LGBTQ in their personal life, they
need to understand that the library is there for the entire community,
not just people with their beliefs.</p>
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Thought that P.S. section might be a little too snarky? </p>
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If none of this is helpful, you might be able to find some help through ALA here: <a href="https://www.ala.org/advocacy/diversity/librariesrespond/Services-LGBTQ" id="gmail-m_5981954565374434047LPlnk552604" target="_blank">https://www.ala.org/advocacy/diversity/librariesrespond/Services-LGBTQ</a> or
here: <a href="https://www.ala.org/rt/rrt" id="gmail-m_5981954565374434047LPlnk716365" target="_blank">https://www.ala.org/rt/rrt</a>. To get help from a more local source, I'm sure the good folks at the State Library of Oregon: <a href="https://www.oregon.gov/library/Pages/default.aspx" id="gmail-m_5981954565374434047LPlnk843784" target="_blank">https://www.oregon.gov/library/Pages/default.aspx</a> and
OLA: <a href="https://www.olaweb.org/" id="gmail-m_5981954565374434047LPlnk981614" target="_blank">https://www.olaweb.org/</a> would be a big help, as they usually are.</p>
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Best of luck in dealing with this prickly situation!</p>
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<div dir="auto">I posted a statement related to this on the People for
Oregon Libraries Facebook page yesterday. I think this statement is
adaptable to your situation. It is posted on this library’s Facebook
page: <div><a href="https://www.facebook.com/358613090563/posts/10165130834365564/?d=n" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/358613090563/posts/10165130834365564/?d=n</a></div></div><div dir="auto"><br></div><div dir="auto"><div dir="auto">A STATEMENT FROM WEST WARWICK PUBLIC LIBRARY</div><div dir="auto"><br></div><div dir="auto">Over
the past few days, there have been postings (principally on social
media) that misrepresent the content and the goals of the library’s
forthcoming Drag Story Hour, particularly through the use of images that
are not relevant to the nature of the program that is taking place. The
stated intent of many of these posts – the majority of which seem to
originate outside the West Warwick community – is to cancel the event.</div><div dir="auto"><br></div><div dir="auto">Drag
Story Hours are a recognized form of library programming for children,
supported by the American Library Association, and this sort of story
time has taken place at other public libraries in the state and across
the nation. The event here celebrates Pride month, and will consist of
guest readers in costume – both of whom have lead story times in the
past – reading children’s books to children and their accompanying
parents. The message we are hoping to get across is that people are
different, and that difference shouldn't be a reason for teasing or
bullying. Our special guests do appear before a range of audiences, but
in this instance the program content will be appropriate for the age
group concerned, will be guided by professional Youth Librarians, and
will not pertain to issues of religious belief or affiliation. We will
be partnering for this event with West Warwick Health Equity Zone (who
are funding the program), Youth Pride RI and PFLAG of Greater
Providence. We are offering two time slots for parents and children to
register for the event on June 26th, and the first of these is already
at capacity.</div><div dir="auto"><br></div><div dir="auto">This year we
were proud to be one of just 15 libraries nationwide to be a named a
finalist for the National Medal for Museum and Library Service by the
Institute of Museum and Library Services. We are the first library in
the state to be so recognized since 2001, and this honor redoubles our
commitment to provide exemplary library service to all of our patrons.
We recognize that not every program we offer matches the interests or
the values of every member of our community, and that patrons may or may
not attend at their own discretion. We will, however, continue to
ensure that issues of equity, diversity and inclusion inform and enrich
everything that we do. Our message is simple – Libraries are for
Everyone.</div><div dir="auto"><br></div><div dir="auto">Colin McCullough, Library Director</div><div dir="auto">Nathan Shapiro, Chair, Board of Trustees</div></div><font color="#888888">-- <br><div dir="ltr"><div dir="ltr"><div><div><em><span style="font-family:"Comic Sans MS";font-size:10pt">Diedre Conkling</span></em><i><span style="font-family:"Comic Sans MS";font-size:10pt"><br></span></i><a href="mailto:diedre08@gmail.com" target="_blank"><em><span style="color:blue;font-family:"Comic Sans MS";font-size:10pt">diedre08@gmail.com</span></em></a></div>
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<span>My advice would be to not respond. I've found a fairly effective way to deal with people who don't believe queer kids exist is:</span></div>
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<ol><li><span>Don't respond directly to the comment/complaint. If people
are really offended by something, they would leave and just not engage.
Most of the time when folks write a letter like this, they're bored and
want to get a reaction. I try to sympathize
and think about how restrictive and joyless this person's life must be
without queer folks in it. </span></li><li>However, <i style="font-size:12pt;font-variant-ligatures:inherit;font-variant-caps:inherit;font-weight:inherit">
do</i><span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);font-family:Calibri,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;font-size:12pt"> redirect
the conversation to minimize harm. If this person (or someone else)
comes in and says the same thing in person, your goal is to keep them
from hurting kids in the vicinity (including their own kids). So don't
even say anything related to the <span class="gmail-il">display</span> or
what they say. Say something like "oh, interesting, could I talk to you
about this over here or outside? That way I can hear you better."
Or even something that makes them feel important, like "coming up with
fresh <span class="gmail-il">displays</span> is hard! I wonder if you could
help me come up with some ideas? I've been thinking about doing one on
cookbooks for kids...anyway, maybe we could brainstorm?" And while
you're doing that, walk towards the door or somewhere away from
kids--walk slowly and they will come with you without even noticing
(that's my favorite: the Walk and Talk!) Then when you're away from the
kids, you can listen passively while they get it all
out, and then give them your director's card. Or if you're the
director, say something like "I have to get back to the desk, but I want
to hear you. Can we continue this over the phone or schedule a time to
meet?" Honestly, if they follow through with meeting/calling,
they're someone you're going to have to deal with eventually, but they
usually end up getting busy and forget once July comes around!</span></li><li>Continue to act like it is totally normal to have a pride <span class="gmail-il">display</span> (which it is) and play dumb/do the above when people complain. </li></ol>
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However, that works at the urban and academic libraries I've worked at
because it's usually either someone who wanted to make a fuss but not
bad enough to follow up, or it's a regular that I can get to know and
have a conversation with over a longer span of
time. At a small library, you might have to respond to the email,
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<span style="color:rgb(0,0,0);font-family:Calibri,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;font-size:12pt">Personally,
I would pretend like it went to spam, because if the patron lets it go,
problem solved. If they write again, then I would craft a response. </span><br>
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<span>The ALA Office of Intellectual Freedom are experts in responding
to things like this. I would contact them and I'm sure they would help
you draft a response. Check out this guide: <a href="https://www.oif.ala.org/oif/?p=14620" id="gmail-m_993402782782980897LPlnk" target="_blank">Defend Pride
at Your Library - Intellectual Freedom Blog (ala.org)</a>. They are
also happy to be "scapegoats." In order to diffuse tension, sometimes
it helps to pass things up the chain. This is what we've been doing for
masks: when people complain to a frontline staff
person, we're like "oh, it's my supervisor's rule," and then the
supervisor says "oh, it's the director's rule," and then it's the mayor,
the governor, etc., and then we all just thank Obama. </span></div>
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The only way I can imagine to respond to this email (what I would do
personally, so take it with a grain of salt!) is to respond to
<i>some</i> things, but not the complaint itself:</div>
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<span style="margin:0px;font-size:12pt;font-family:Calibri,Helvetica,sans-serif;background-color:rgb(255,255,255)"><i>Dear Patron,</i></span>
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<i>Thank you for your kinds words! It's always so nice to hear from
library fans! I will be sure to pass along your appreciation to our
volunteers. </i></div>
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<i>We always appreciate suggestions from the community for <span class="gmail-il">displays</span>.
If you don't mind, could you share some celebrations that are important
to your family and friends? We'd love to add those to a list to help
our volunteers! We strive to be a library for
all adults and kids in Douglas County, and our <span class="gmail-il">displays</span>
are something we do not just to show off the great books we have, but
also to show that we welcome the whole Douglas County community. </i></div>
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<i>Thanks again!</i></div>
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If you can include your pronouns in your signature, or a little rainbow
or something, that will be an extra thing to show to show that you are
including LGBTQ+ folks when you say "all adults and kids in Douglas
County," just in case the patron releases the
email on social media or something. If they respond, just keep playing
dumb, like it's so weird that a person would be mad about a pride <span class="gmail-il">display</span>,
they must be confused...oh, but I do understand when they say kids come
in the library--yes, they do! "Aww,
that's so nice of you to notice! Yep, we love kids. Do you have
kids? Do you let them play computer games? Do you know which ones they
like?" </div>
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If they keep pushing back, you can send a final email with something like:</div>
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<i>We have received your input. The library celebrates the diversity of
all the people who make up our beautiful Douglas County. We will
continue to <span class="gmail-il">display</span> materials that welcome the LGBTQIA+ people in our community. </i>(Or "LGBTQIA+ adults, teens and
children"--I like to be a broken record about the fact that there <i>are</i> queer kids, and they are KIDS. Like, actual human children. But that is a fight
<i>I'm </i>willing to pick, and it might not be the right strategy for
your library/community. It might be too much for this person to handle
right now.) </div>
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<span>We can't really change people's minds by trying to change their
minds--they will be so busy arguing that nothing will sink in. But what
libraries can do is contribute to the normalization of inclusion. This
is what I always tell my people: Queer folks
exist. The earth is round. Some people don't know those things for
some reason, so we just have to keep <span class="gmail-il">displaying</span>
pride flags and globes to help those people out and to gradually coax
their minds open. They'll get it eventually, or they'll pass on and
the Tik Tok kids will inherit the earth. </span></div>
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<span>In the end, remember that the overwhelming majority of library folks have your back, and that includes the OLA and ALA. </span></div>
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Rachael, everything Matthew said seems spot on to me. In addition to
his helpful suggestions for resources and support, I would add that the
OLA Intellectual Freedom committee is also here to help in whatever way
is appropriate. I have copied Kirsten Brodbeck-Kenny and Perry Stokes,
the IFC co-chairs here. You can reach out to them directly, or reply to
me (I am a member of the committee). <div><br></div><div>A couple additional ideas to note: Have you had <span class="gmail-il">displays</span> on topics that would be things this patron would likely support? Pointing out that the library provides <span class="gmail-il">displays</span>
on a variety of topics and viewpoints, similar to the variety of topics
and viewpoints in its collections, could potentially help them see what
it means to support ALL the groups within the community. And hopefully
you have a clear <span class="gmail-il">displays</span> policy that sets out the rationale for providing <span class="gmail-il">displays</span> on a variety of topics/viewpoints and not avoiding controversy (which is a form of self-censorship). </div><div><br></div><div>And do please report this <span class="gmail-il">challenge</span> to the State Library Intellectual Freedom Clearinghouse (<a href="https://libguides.osl.state.or.us/oifc/report" target="_blank">https://libguides.osl.state.or.us/oifc/report</a>). This helps the State Library track <span class="gmail-il">challenges</span>, and forwards <span class="gmail-il">challenges</span> received to ALA for its tracking as well. </div><div><br></div><div>Hope this is helpful. I or anyone from the IFC would be happy to have further conversation if it would be helpful. </div><div><br></div><div><span class="gmail-il">Challenges</span>
can be nerve-wracking, but stay calm, respond rationally and not
emotionally. Hear the patron's concerns, but stand firm on your
intellectual freedom principles. Best of luck</div><font color="#888888"><div><br></div><div>Steve Silver</div></font> <br></div><div dir="ltr">
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif">Very unfortunate, but not a total surprise, eh?</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif">I
suggest you perhaps find a person or persons in the LGBTQ+ community
[maybe even in the library LGBTQ+ community] willing to sit down and
have a “get-to-know-each-other” chat. It’s been shown [research not at
my finger-tips but would be glad to find] that personal contact changes
peoples’ attitudes toward the LBGTQ+ community more than anything else. </span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif">It
can be offered to the person who wrote the letter. If she declines then
you know her mind is closed; she not only has misperceptions, she
wishes to hold on to them. </span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif">I
think the gesture itself would be a lesson to her. Just knowing someone
is strong enough in themselves and their LGBTQ+ identity to be willing
to have a civil conversation with her may put a small dent in her
self-righteous views.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif">Donna</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal">Donna L Cohen, MLIS, MEd</p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10pt">Portland, Oregon</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10pt">503-737-1425</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10pt"><a href="mailto:dcohen@hevanet.com" target="_blank">dcohen@hevanet.com</a></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10pt">Civics for Adults – and Others – Workshops: To Enhance Civic Knowledge and Inspire Political Engagement</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10pt">Webpage <a href="http://www.civicthinker.info" target="_blank">www.civicthinker.info</a> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10pt">Facebook <a href="https://www.facebook.com/Civics-for-Adults-1490728887922036/" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/Civics-for-Adults-1490728887922036/</a></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10pt">“My
philosophy is very simple. When you see something that is not fair, not
right, not just – stand up, say something, speak up!” Rep. John Lewis <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L6lzPpqc2WY" target="_blank">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L6lzPpqc2WY</a></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><a name="m_-6626255931110723640__MailEndCompose"><span style="color:rgb(31,73,125)">Hi Rachael,</span></a></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="color:rgb(31,73,125)"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="color:rgb(31,73,125)">If you decide to take
this route please be careful in reaching out to LGBTQ+ staff or
community members about doing this. I would recommend making a blanket
ask for a volunteer to a local LGBTQ+ group rather
than making a targeted ask to specific individuals. I don’t know how
you identify, but if you are cis and straight, you should know that
queer people are forced to interact with people who have these beliefs
on a regular basis, and it can be traumatic and
triggering. Cis straight folks do not get to ask queer folks to put
themselves in a potentially dangerous or distressing situation in order
to educate other cis straight people. Even if you make it clear that
saying no is okay, just putting them in a situation
where they are forced to say no is problematic, in my opinion.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="color:rgb(31,73,125)">I lived and worked in
your neighboring Coos County for several years, and as a queer
librarian, I am not certain I would have been comfortable being asked to
attempt to humanize the entire LGBTQ+ community to
someone who is obviously resistant, especially in that particular
community where a lot of homophobic and transphobic sentiment persists
(and my understanding is that Douglas County is similar or even a bit
worse). In addition to a potentially traumatic conversation,
the possibility of making myself a target for violence from others in
the community would have made me very leery. I definitely would have
reacted poorly to being asked to do this by my boss (or volunteer
supervisor) as a part of my job/volunteer work.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="color:rgb(31,73,125)">I am not saying this
tactic shouldn’t be pursued or could not be helpful, just that you
should be very careful about who and how you ask.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="color:rgb(31,73,125)">Thank you for putting
up the flags and keeping them up despite this complaint! I’ve seen time
and time again how big of a difference these gestures can make,
especially in rural communities where LGBTQ+ people
often feel unsafe in public spaces. I appreciate you doing the work to
make everyone feel welcome, especially knowing how much harder it is to
take that public stance in communities like yours than it is for us up
in the Portland metro.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="color:rgb(0,48,130)">Elena Gleason | <i>Readers’ Advisory Librarian</i> | Pronouns: she/her</span></b></p>
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Folks will know best what they can get away with in their local
settings, and I can’t and don’t wish to speak for all queer people. But
here is what I personally wish the response would be:<div><br></div><div>“Thank
you for your thoughtful message. Your concern for your neighbors and
our community is admirable, and we always encourage people to actively
engage with the library.</div><div><br></div><div>However, your concerns
are not consistent with the experiences that LGBTQ+ individuals
describe in their own lives. Further, you included several factually
incorrect statements about medical care for transgender people and
reproductive options available to people of all gender identities and
sexual orientations.</div><div><br></div><div>Our library staff would be
happy to connect you with reliable sources of information about these
topics, since they are of interest to you.</div><div><br></div><div>Thank you again!”</div><div><br></div><div>Best,</div><div>Mark</div>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:rgb(31,73,125)">Hi Rachael,</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:rgb(31,73,125)"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:rgb(31,73,125)">As
someone who spent their teen years in Douglas County and who had many
high school friends who are part of the LGBTQIA community who are ALSO
from Douglas County, I just wanted to say thank you for putting up that <span class="gmail-il">display</span> in the first place AND for keeping it up. I wish that my friends could have seen such a <span class="gmail-il">display</span>
when they were still living in Roseburg, because it would have made a
huge difference to them. In fact, ALL of my LGBTQ+ friends moved away
from Douglas county because of the negative treatment they received or
witnessed growing up identifying with the LGBTIQIA community. In
addition, I do still have a few friends in Douglas County who are
raising children and those parents are actively looking for materials
that show examples of our queer friends, because it’s a part of their
lives and the lives of those they love. </span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:rgb(31,73,125)"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:rgb(31,73,125)">I think everyone who responded to this email had great insight into how to deal with this <span class="gmail-il">challenge</span>. I just wanted to say something as a former Douglas County resident to let you know that this <span class="gmail-il">display</span>
will mean so much to some of your community members who routinely
experience harassment and hate from other Douglas County residents. It
means so much to be seen and validated, especially in a hostile
environment. Thank you for doing what you do and keep it up!</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:rgb(31,73,125)"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:rgb(31,73,125)">Best,</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11pt;font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif";color:rgb(31,73,125)">Caitlin McMahan, MLIS<br>Youth Services Coordinator<br>Fern Ridge Public Library<br>88026 Territorial Rd.<br>Veneta, OR 97487<br>541.393.1046</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Hi Rachael,</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">I agree with Matthew. It is important to express
the library’s posture and point of view in this matter. A “thanks for
your e-mail” type of reply will just dilute the message behind the flag.
Sometimes people with this type of behavior
and mentality are really tied to a hierarchical posture/view and by
pointing out the American Library Association’s support might be
beneficial to emphasize how much equity and inclusion are expected and
appreciated at libraries.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Best,</p>
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<span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif;color:rgb(73,73,73)">The <a href="http://www.ala.org/advocacy/intfreedom/librarybill" target="_blank"><span style="color:rgb(51,122,183);border:1pt none windowtext;padding:0in">Library Bill of Rights</span></a> affirms
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<span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif;color:rgb(73,73,73)">Gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender peoples’ access to libraries may be limited or prohibited by many issues, including:</span></p>
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which are not welcoming or inclusive of LGBTQIA+ people and which,
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Hi, Rachael.<div><br></div><div>I am so sorry that you are having to
deal with this. I'm afraid that I don't have any specific advice except
that you can contact the <a href="https://www.ala.org/aboutala/offices/diversity" target="_blank">ALA Office for Diversity, Literacy and Outreach Services</a>.
I am sure that they would be willing to offer advice and support for
you and your staff. They may even be willing to write a letter of
support for you. It might be a little bit harder for them to argue
against the American Library Association. However, before you take any
further action in regards to the <span class="gmail-il">display</span>, I
would first advise you to contact your Manager or Director if you have
one, and if not, your Board of Trustees or local administrative board
that is responsible for the library. Get ahead of the problem and tell
your story before this ugly patron tells theirs. Sending you support
and best wishes from Mississippi.</div><div><br></div><div>Warmest regards,</div><div><br clear="all"><div><div dir="ltr"><div dir="ltr"><div><div dir="ltr"><div><div dir="ltr"><div><b><font size="4" face="garamond, times new roman, serif" color="#000000">Jenniffer Stephenson, Interim Director</font></b></div><div><div><font size="4" face="garamond, times new roman, serif" color="#000000"><b>First Regional Library</b></font></div><font size="4" face="garamond, times new roman, serif" color="#000000"><b>370 W. Commerce Street</b></font><div><font size="4" face="garamond, times new roman, serif" color="#000000"><b>Hernando, MS 38632</b></font></div><div><font size="4" face="garamond, times new roman, serif" color="#000000"><b>662-429-4439, ext. 116</b></font></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div>
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The best advice I ever got for dealing with <span class="gmail-il">challenges</span> is to identify and speak to people's feelings and needs. Hopefully you have policies in place about collections, programs and <span class="gmail-il">displays</span> that also include a process for people who want to <span class="gmail-il">challenge</span>
them. If not, now is a good time to start putting those in place.
This is how I would respond, just to give you some ideas: <div><br></div><div>Thank
you for your interest in the library, and for taking the time to share
your experience and convictions. I appreciate your courage in sharing
your perspective and I understand that this is an important issue for
you. </div><div>As you pointed out, the library is a community library
and that means that we serve everyone, and that includes LGBTQ+ people
in our community. We want everyone to feel welcome in the library and to
know that it is a safe place. Serving a diverse community like ours
means having something for everyone and letting each person decide
what's best for them and their family. I hope you will continue to use
the library and all of the resources that are right for you, and that we
will have your support in ensuring that everyone in our community can
do the same.</div>
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<div>I would definitely talk to your trustees, but it may be enough to
politely thank the patron for sharing their opinion and then refer to
the ALA Library Bill of Rights (<a href="https://www.ala.org/advocacy/intfreedom/librarybill" target="_blank">https://www.ala.org/advocacy/intfreedom/librarybill</a>) -- Our <span class="gmail-il">displays</span> are in keeping with the American Library Association Library Bill of Rights, which is the standard for our profession.</div><div>Best of luck,</div><div>Julie</div>
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Hi Rachel (and all),<br>
I am writing on behalf of the Oregon Intellectual Freedom Committee.
Thanks so much for reaching out to the OLA community to ask about this <span class="gmail-il">challenge</span>
and to seek some advice. The OIFC agrees with many of the suggestions
offered here, and we felt it pertinent to chime in a bulleted list of
suggested talking points and next steps. <br>
<br>
We do recognize that the customer interaction and response provided will
be different for different circumstances. As one of our committee
members, Steve Silver put is so clearly: <br>
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"It's not a one-size-fits-all situation. Some folks would be in a
position to hear [a more detailed explanation]. For others, just keeping
it simple (and non-confrontational) will be best. I think it calls for
sensitivity and awareness of where the patron is on that scale for each
individual interaction. Only the local librarian involved with that
patron/community can best judge what the patron can or cannot handle and
what the best level of information to share would be most helpful."<br>
<br>
That said, we share the following list of possible talking points to respond: <br>
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. Point to <span class="gmail-il">display</span> policy (if one exists). Could also possibly reference program or collection development policy as applicable<br>
. Keep it short option. Example: "The library will continue to represent and include everyone in the community"<br>
. If appropriate, address misinformation. Example: "the library is
not advocating for any specific medical treatment for children, we are
advocating inclusiveness for all people in Douglas County and have
chosen to <span class="gmail-il">display</span> these flags to acknowledge the nationally-recognized occasion of Pride Month."<br>
. If appropriate to a longer response:<br>
o Remind the customer that the library is a place for all members
of the community, including the LGBTQ individuals in Douglas County<br>
o Remind the customer that the library is a place for people to
explore ideas, learn about different lifestyles and beliefs. Introduce
the concept of mirrors and windows.<br>
o Remind the customer that the library provides a wide variety of information and concepts within its collections, <span class="gmail-il">displays</span>
and programs and that in providing that information, the library is not
subscribing to any one platform or belief, nor is it asking for support
one way or another from its customers. <br>
<br>
This is a great reminder to all that one of the best practices for managing <span class="gmail-il">challenges</span>
includes having and maintaining policies on how selections are made
within your library. Just as many libraries have a Collection
Development Policy, it is also pertinent to have a programing policy, a <span class="gmail-il">display</span> policy and a services policy. Having these in place makes managing <span class="gmail-il">challenges</span>
much easier, as you can clearly outline how decisions are made, as well
as defend those decisions with a written document your library follows.
<br>
<br>
The IFC hopes that these suggestions help, and we are here to support any other questions or <span class="gmail-il">challenges</span> that may come up. If you need more support from the IFC, please reach out via email to <a href="mailto:ifc.chair@olaweb.org" target="_blank">ifc.chair@olaweb.org</a>. <br>
<br>
Best,<br>
Oregon Intellectual Freedom Committee<br>
<a href="https://www.olaweb.org/contact-ifc" rel="noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.olaweb.org/contact-ifc</a> <br>
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Emily O'Neal (541) 617-7061 <a href="mailto:emilyo@deschuteslibrary.org" target="_blank">emilyo@deschuteslibrary.org</a> <br></div><div dir="ltr"><br></div><div dir="ltr">
Hi Rachael - <div><br></div><div>I'm not sure if you have already
responded; I am just seeing this. I think a short and sweet reminder
that you are not encouraging or discouraging anyone from their beliefs
or healthcare decisions, but the library is a place where differences
are celebrated. I'd also thank the patron for sharing their concerns
(and try not to argue your point, because it is futile at best and can
escalate the situation). Good luck! I'd be super interested to see a
compilation of the advice you receive! </div><div><br></div><div>Allie</div>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><a name="m_-5738817996630297483__Hlk26537510">Yikes. I would keep the response brief and focused. I’m sure you can wordsmith this but here are some thoughts:</a></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span>Thank her for her interest. If you have a <span class="gmail-il">display</span> policy, you might review and send to her if it addresses any of this.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span>It’s important for libraries to reflect the
diverse communities we serve without discrimination. A library’s mission
is to provide access to information for all users and offer diverse
resources from
many points of view. All library users have the same First Amendment
rights. We are here to represent everyone – all genders, sexual
orientations, ages, religions, etc. We offer a safe space to all
people.
</span><span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif;color:rgb(51,51,51);background:rgb(254,254,254) none repeat scroll 0% 0%">Each family has the right to determine which library resources are acceptable for its children and must accord the
same right to other parents.</span></span><span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span>I don’t know if you ran into this article, but perhaps you can pull some words of wisdom from this:
</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span></span><a href="https://www.teenlibrariantoolbox.com/2018/08/we-need-to-talk-about-lgbtq-book-displays/" target="_blank"><span>https://www.teenlibrariantoolbox.com/2018/08/we-need-to-talk-about-lgbtq-book-<span class="gmail-il">displays</span>/</span><span></span></a><span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:"Arial",sans-serif;color:rgb(68,68,68);background:white none repeat scroll 0% 0%">“But
if we truly understand librarianship, we must understand that a job
well done means that we will occasionally
be offending someone. According to recent statistics, approximately 50%
of teens identify as LGBTQ. By saying that we won’t put LGBTQ teens on <span class="gmail-il">display</span>,
we are saying that we are willing to silence half of our teenage
population. This is a group that has historically
and continues to this present day to face widespread persecution and
assaults on their mere existence. The rates of homelessness, bullying
and suicide are incredibly high among LGBTQ youth. Our silence, our
refusal to buy and amplify these voices makes us,
libraries and librarians, complicit in these statistics. Let us always
remember that helping teens find the books they need can, in fact, be
literally life-saving.”</span></span><span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span>Best of luck. I’m glad you’re standing firm. It’s difficult to respond to an email like that.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Yikes is right. </p>
<p class="MsoNormal"> </p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Often the best thing about this type of comment is
that it gives the library the opportunity to open up a dialog. So while a
written response is appropriate, I would think a phone call (if the
person left a contact number) might be more
productive. Or even and invitation to meet for a moment in person.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"> </p>
<p class="MsoNormal">That said, I would have talking points prepared
that include the Library Bill of Rights, Freedom to Read, and other
tenants of librarianship. While you want to be responsive to the
community, in this case (as you have indicated) you also
need to uphold the right to of the library to <span class="gmail-il">display</span> the flags.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><br>
The Colorado Library Consortium keeps a <a href="https://www.clicweb.org/extras/innovations-initiatives/publiclibrarypolicycollection/" target="_blank">
database of policies</a> tailored for smaller, more rural libraries. I found one <span class="gmail-il">display</span>
policy from the Grand County, Utah (Moab area) library that may also
help you with some language, even if you don’t formally adopt the
policy. Here is the link to it.
<a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/nwcdrk38ympebl9/Moab-UT-Bulletin%20Board%20%26%20Display.pdf?dl=0" target="_blank">
https://www.dropbox.com/s/nwcdrk38ympebl9/Moab-UT-Bulletin%20Board%20%26%20Display.pdf?dl=0</a></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Good luck! You are doing important work. This is what makes librarianship <span class="gmail-il">challenging</span> and worthwhile.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Kind Regards,</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11pt;font-family:"Calibri",sans-serif;color:rgb(31,73,125)">In a nutshell she answered her own concern.
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Calibri",sans-serif;color:black">“This is a community library and it is not helpful to alienate a large segment of the community if you want community support.”</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Calibri",sans-serif;color:black">Mel</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11pt;font-family:"Calibri",sans-serif;color:rgb(31,73,125)"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11pt;font-family:"Calibri",sans-serif;color:rgb(31,73,125)">Melissa ‘Miss Mel’ Hager</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11pt;font-family:"Calibri",sans-serif;color:rgb(31,73,125)">Children’s Librarian</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11pt;font-family:"Calibri",sans-serif;color:rgb(31,73,125)">Alexander County Library</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:11pt;font-family:"Calibri",sans-serif;color:rgb(31,73,125)"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-family:"Segoe UI Historic",sans-serif;color:rgb(5,5,5);background:white none repeat scroll 0% 0%">Searching
for some strange and perfect world where we might begin anew, unaware
there is always a veil that hides the paradise we seek, that always
we are the veil. </span></b></p>
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<span style="font-size:11.5pt;font-family:"Segoe UI Historic",sans-serif;color:rgb(5,5,5)"><span>-<span style="font:7pt "Times New Roman"">
</span></span></span><i><span style="font-size:11.5pt;font-family:"Segoe UI Historic",sans-serif;color:rgb(5,5,5);background:white none repeat scroll 0% 0%">From “To St. Brendan the Navigator, Protector of Sailors”
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:"Georgia",serif">Dear Rachael:</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:"Georgia",serif"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:"Georgia",serif">Good morning!
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:"Georgia",serif"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:"Georgia",serif">Wow,
this is just very frustrating all around. I have reached out to a
fellow librarian in Maine who I think went through an art piece <span class="gmail-il">display</span> <span class="gmail-il">challenge</span> a couple years ago and might
be able to provide some practical help. </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:"Georgia",serif"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:"Georgia",serif">President Biden signed this official recognition of Pride Month:
<a href="https://www.whitehouse.gov/briefing-room/presidential-actions/2021/06/01/a-proclamation-on-lesbian-gay-bisexual-transgender-and-queer-pride-month-2021/" target="_blank">
https://www.whitehouse.gov/briefing-room/presidential-actions/2021/06/01/a-proclamation-on-lesbian-gay-bisexual-transgender-and-queer-pride-month-2021/</a></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:"Georgia",serif"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:"Georgia",serif">You might also want to use this <span class="gmail-il">Challenge</span> Reporting Tool from ALA to report the <span class="gmail-il">challenge</span>:
<a href="https://www.ala.org/tools/challengesupport/report" target="_blank">https://www.ala.org/tools/challengesupport/report</a></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:"Georgia",serif"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:"Georgia",serif">The
wonderful Jamie LaRue is on the ARSL Advocacy Committee, and I know he
will see your email but I am cc’ing him in anyway, as he has done some
direct work with this:
<a href="https://www.slj.com/?detailStory=lgbt-pride-month-brings-extra-challenges-librarians" target="_blank">
https://www.slj.com/?detailStory=lgbt-pride-month-brings-extra-<span class="gmail-il">challenges</span>-librarians</a></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:"Georgia",serif"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:"Georgia",serif">I
confess this touches a real sore spot with me as a Mom of a non-binary
child going through HRT treatments. (They are also a wonderful library
user and supporter.) Picking through
this patron’s argument and weeding out the junk science, it seems to
come down to some vague insinuations that your funding might be
threatened by persons unnamed and unknown. This is not a new tactic, of
course.
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:"Georgia",serif">My own personal thought right now, as a former director, is that this patron should fill out a <span class="gmail-il">challenge</span> form if they are that concerned. Put it on the record. That is one complaint.
If there are more, than they, too, should fill out the form. </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:"Georgia",serif">I will let you know what I find out from my colleague in Maine, and I look forward to others’ response as well.
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:"Georgia",serif">Most respectfully and sincerely,</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:10pt;font-family:"Georgia",serif">Lisa
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<p class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="font-family:"Georgia",serif">Lisa M. Shaw</span></i></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Georgia",serif">(Pronouns: she/her)</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Georgia",serif">Maine State Library – Library Development</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Georgia",serif">Rural & Small Libraries/Workforce Development Specialist</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Georgia",serif">64 State House Station</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Georgia",serif">Augusta ME 04333-0064</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Georgia",serif">(207) 217-1565 (mobile)</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Georgia",serif"><a href="mailto:lisa.m.shaw@maine.gov" target="_blank"><span style="color:rgb(5,99,193)">lisa.m.shaw@maine.gov</span></a></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Georgia",serif"><a href="https://www.maine.gov/msl/libs/index.shtml" target="_blank"><span style="color:rgb(5,99,193)">https://www.maine.gov/msl/libs/index.shtml</span></a></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Georgia",serif"><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/lisanealshaw/" target="_blank"><span style="color:rgb(5,99,193)">https://www.linkedin.com/in/lisanealshaw/</span></a></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:center" align="center"><b><span style="font-size:12pt">Dator’s Law: “Any useful statement about the future should at first seem ridiculous.”
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:center" align="center"><b><span style="font-size:12pt">[Jim Dator]</span></b></p></div>
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Wow. Just wow. You’d should contact ALA’s office for intellectual freedom. <div><a href="https://www.ala.org/aboutala/offices/oif" target="_blank">https://www.ala.org/aboutala/offices/oif</a></div><div dir="auto"><br></div><div dir="auto">They
can help you formulate a response. Public libraries are supported by
the tax dollars of ALL the people we represent, no matter their sexual
orientation. One person’s personal opinion should not impact your
ability to support a group of individuals and the greater good. </div><div dir="auto"><br></div><div dir="auto">Best of luck!</div>
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When you respond to the letter, I think you might note that the flags
aren’t there to encourage children to “become” gay or trans — that’s not
how gender identity works anyway. They are simply to express support
for a group of people who have experienced (and
continue to experience, as the letter writer’s comments show)
oppression and discrimination. It’s a message of kindness and tolerance
for who people are, not encouraging anyone to become something else.
The letter writer’s comments could be seen as evidence
that some tolerance and kindness is needed.</div>
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I will add that not everyone who is uncomfortable with pride month has
that woman’s attitude. Some just feel that sex is a private thing and
what people do in private — regardless of gender identity or
orientation— is nobody’s business, and they don’t see why
the LGBTQ+ community has to be so “in your face” about it. (I’ve heard
this several times this month, even from people I know support gay
marriage and other progressive attitudes.) How many flags do you have
up? Do you put up as many American flags for Flag
Day, Veterans Day, etc.? Might the number of pride flags seem
excessive in comparison?</div>
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That’s just what came to mind. Good luck!</div>
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<p class="MsoNormal">My two cents is to politely respond that in bowing to her wishes, you would still be “alienating a large part of the community.”
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<p class="MsoNormal">Best of luck!</p>
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I have to confess that it's too hard for me to objective in writing a response letter to this <span class="gmail-il">challenge</span>, but I can at least give some input for a potential draft.</div>
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First off, I LOVE that PS you included, Matthew - the library isn't
requiring that she or anyone else who shares her views to agree with the
<span class="gmail-il">display</span>. I would say that we didn't put up this <span class="gmail-il">display</span> as a matter of politics, but as a matter of supporting those
members of the LGBTQ community in Douglas County. </div>
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I would want to keep it short and sweet. Essentially, "we're sorry to hear you don't like this <span class="gmail-il">display</span>. However, because queer people use the library, too, and the library is a place for everyone, we will be keeping it up."</div>
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I'm also so sorry to see you've gotten this <span class="gmail-il">challenge</span>.
If you'd like an additional set of queer eyes to look over your
response before sending it, please let me know! I would love to help.</div>
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Sincerely,</div>
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<div dir="auto">Rachel,</div><div dir="auto"><br></div><div dir="auto">My
suggestion is to focus on the fact that the library is for everyone.
You may want to reach out to ALA’s Office of Intellectual Freedom and
report a <span class="gmail-il">challenge</span> (<a href="http://ala.org/tools/challenge" target="_blank">ala.org/tools/<span class="gmail-il">challenge</span></a> support/report). They will help you to formulate a response. </div><div dir="auto"><br></div><div dir="auto">Good luck,</div><div dir="auto">C. L.</div>
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<div dir="ltr"><div class="gmail_default" style="font-size:small">Rachael, the basic format is this.</div><div class="gmail_default" style="font-size:small"><br></div><div class="gmail_default" style="font-size:small">1. In writing, thank the patron for her concern. Thank her, as well, for her kind words about volunteers.</div><div class="gmail_default" style="font-size:small">2. Repeat her concerns (she may not remember exactly what she said).</div><div class="gmail_default" style="font-size:small">3. Include a copy of whatever policies you have regarding <span class="gmail-il">displays</span>. Most libraries have something that says they offer <span class="gmail-il">displays</span> highlighting collections <i>and topics of current interest</i>.</div><div class="gmail_default" style="font-size:small">4.
Let her know that some topics of contemporary interest are
divisive. But the library has to serve everyone in the community--which
also includes LBGTQ patrons. But if the only choice is to
deliberately suppress a view SOME may not agree with (evolution,
abortion, climate change), then the library fails in its mission,
which is to provide access to the content of our culture, and insight
into the dialog of the times.</div><div class="gmail_default" style="font-size:small">5. Let her know your decision: the <span class="gmail-il">display</span> fits your policies, and will run its course. You are constrained, after all, to follow your own rules. Be firm but polite.</div><div class="gmail_default" style="font-size:small">6.
Let her know (depending on your policies) that she has the right to
appeal your decision, mostly likely to your board. Tell her if she
wishes to do that, you'll make it happen. (Then make sure to brief your
board on the relevant policies ahead of time, and your letter.)</div><div class="gmail_default" style="font-size:small">7.
Always, end again with thanks. It can be just as uncomfortable to
complain about something as it is to receive the complaint. You
appreciate the interest and her time.</div><div class="gmail_default" style="font-size:small"><br></div><div class="gmail_default" style="font-size:small">And
good luck! For more support, do reach out to ALA's Office for
Intellectual Freedom. And I'd ask you to report it to them, anyhow, just
to keep track of such things. For more info, see <a href="https://www.ala.org/tools/challengesupport" target="_blank">https://www.ala.org/tools/challengesupport</a></div><div class="gmail_default" style="font-size:small"><br></div><div class="gmail_default" style="font-size:small">Jamie LaRue</div></div>
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I thought this response regarding complaints to a drag queen storytime was brillian. I wish I would have written it.</div>
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Wow. That's an interesting one.<div dir="auto"><br></div><div dir="auto">Maybe
answer with something like it is a public library and your goal is to
be welcoming to everyone in the community. I assume you have <span class="gmail-il">displays</span>
for the other causes that are celebrated each month. If you decorate
for Christmas are non-Christians upset? I can understand that people
are uncomfortable with situations they don't know very much about.
Librarians have the responsibility to provide information for all points
of view. </div><div dir="auto"><br></div><div dir="auto">I'm not
articulating this very well, but I hope some of it makes sense. The
other option is to have a very bland library and not put up any <span class="gmail-il">displays</span>. </div><div dir="auto"><br></div><div dir="auto">I'm
sure you will find a good way to respond. Unfortunately, we can't
please everyone, but hopefully we can provide excellent service to
everyone.</div><div dir="auto"><br></div><div dir="auto">Good luck with this. I would be interested to find out how it works out.</div>
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