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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial Black'">I was fortunate to attend an Irish wake in <?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" /><st1:place w:st="on"><st1:City w:st="on">San Antonio</st1:City>, <st1:State w:st="on">Texas</st1:State></st1:place> about a year and half ago. <?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial Black'">The individual was a retired Lt. Col. From the USAF and was in hospice care for almost two years before he died.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>He scripted his funeral service down to and including a farewell poem he wrote to his ten children from two marriages and many grandchildren etc.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial Black'">The only glitch was the pastor or his local Catholic church would not allow singing by one of his sons and that son’s daughter.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>The funeral came through and everything work out for the best. <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial Black'">My wife is not quite familiar with a military funeral service and we live in a town without any active duty military.<SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>Therefore I have started a “What to do when I die and go to Heaven” Book.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial Black'">It is a work in progress and has 12 chapters.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>
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<DIV>I am starting a book of me</DIV>
<DIV>The thought is at my funeral there will be a book about me, made by me, to show what I thought was important in my lfe.</DIV>
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<DIV>It is so hard to do one of these rememberance books at the time of grief, so am doing it now. No I do not think that I will die anytime soon but no since in waiting and have one of my kids do one. May not like it</DIV>
<DIV>Judy</DIV></BLOCKQUOTE></body></html>