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<DIV>Stephanie, You are an inspiration to us
all. My experience with someone who went on a family cemetery
and "read" the cemetery includng many many many mistakes. Whoever
allowed her to do it has refused to take it down.</DIV>
<DIV>I do not feel kindly to her but I think about the people who are
researching the people there and they begin looking for some of the non-existant
people she listed. They may spend a lot of time
looking for these persons. It is a small cemetery in Lincoln County
Oregon.</DIV>
<DIV> Wish I could be as kind as your are.</DIV>
<DIV>Lillian </DIV>
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<DIV>In a message dated 4/8/2009 3:29:12 P.M. Pacific Daylight Time,
slflora47@msn.com writes:</DIV>
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<P class=MsoNormal><FONT face="Courier New" size=2><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">I have been getting some
comments off of the list regarding releasing the name of this individual and I
would like to expand on my previous comments. First of all, I know
nothing about her but I believe she may be fairly new to genealogy. If I
were to look back on my beginning years in genealogy I am sure there could be
a book written about the mistakes I made. <o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal><FONT face="Courier New" size=2><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">I have been dealing with
her on a one to one basis and I am sure that if she had an opportunity to
throw me off of a bridge she would be looking for a really high one because I
had no intention of backing down and just going away and let her know
it. In turn, I got the results I needed but I left a very mad and
defiant individual. Her logic and sense of indignation is beyond the
scope of understanding when you consider that in a matter of 6 months she has
pirated over 11,000 burial records complete with information from two web
sites.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal><FONT face="Courier New" size=2><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">Releasing her name would
serve no purpose. In my younger days I might have burned her at the
stake but I am older, wiser and have come to realize that the choices I make
today will be the ones I have to live with tomorrow. I am a big believer
in the old adage, Do something about the things you can fix and let go of the
ones you can’t.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
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style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'"><o:p> </o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal><FONT face="Courier New" size=2><SPAN
style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">I do not plan on living my
life worried about some rabid genealogist with revenge on her mind. The
things I do when I am not doing genealogy are much more dangerous and ten
times more likely to kill me. My concern now is with Find A Grave and
their blatant disregard when this type of thing is reported. That is
where we should all be focused because if it wasn’t for their policies there
would be no problem in the first place. I hope you all join with me and
focus on them as the issue.<o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
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style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">Stephenie Flora<BR><A
title=http://www.oregonpioneers.com/ortrail.htm
href="http://www.oregonpioneers.com/ortrail.htm">www.oregonpioneers.com/ortrail.htm</A><BR>My
Families: Acuff, Bartruff, Bewley, Greene, Lewis, Modlin,
Patty</SPAN></FONT><o:p></o:p></P>
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