[OMS_MANAGERS] Unifying communities during times of tension

[Megan Dompe]

Hi Everyone!

 I wanted to share with you a list I compiled after researching some good
tips for community unification in times of political tension and conflict.
These are really divisive times all over, Coburg is no exception. Given our
leadership in community outreach, welcoming diverse voices, and inclusive
place making… I feel this messaging is aligned with the work we are doing
while making sure to not engage in any political action or leaning
statements.

Feel free to use this list! This is truly just a compiled list of tips I
found online to share with our board, local stakeholders, and community
members as needed from this point forward.

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1. Remember the human before the position

Behind every opinion is a neighbor, a parent, a volunteer, or a small
business owner. We can disagree without dehumanizing one another.

2. Choose direct conversation over public confrontation

If something feels hurtful, concerning, or unresolved, reach out privately
when possible. One-on-one conversations reduce misunderstandings and lower
the temperature.

3. Assume good intent until proven otherwise

Most people are acting from care, fear, or a desire to protect what they
love, not from malice. Starting from curiosity instead of accusation keeps
doors open.

4. Keep public spaces safe and welcoming for everyone

Downtowns, parks, and community spaces belong to the whole community. Let’s
engage in ways that don’t intimidate, threaten, or make others feel unsafe.

5. Take a pause when emotions run high

Strong feelings are understandable, but taking a moment before responding
can prevent words or actions we can’t take back.

6. Lead with listening, not winning

The goal of conversation isn’t to change minds, it’s to understand
perspectives. Feeling heard often matters more than agreement.

7. Remember our shared stake

No matter our politics, we all want safe streets, thriving local
businesses, healthy families, and a community we’re proud to call home.

8. Model the behavior we want to see

Calm voices, respectful language, and kindness are contagious. Each of us
helps set the tone for the community.

9. Protect relationships, even when ideas differ

Friendships, neighborly trust, and community goodwill are harder to rebuild
than disagreements are to resolve.

10. Reach out when you’re struggling

Times like these are heavy. Lean on trusted friends, neighbors, or local
support instead of carrying it alone.
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Hope you all are doing well! Looking forward to seeing you all at Oregon
Heritage Conference if not before.

Megan Dompe
Director of Coburg Main Street
PO Box 2875
Coburg, Oregon 97408
(541)913-6570

"Start where you are,
Use what you have,
Do what you can."
- Arthur Ashe
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